I don't know what to do with my husband. We have set up a budget. He gets a set amount for his allowance every week for his lunches and what ever he wants. I found out that he is also using his debit card for his lunches. He doesn't care how much he spends. He feels that he makes the money, he can spend it as he wants. We were $400 negative every month, because of his spending. He won't give up his nice car or tv channels to help lower the bills. I have $100 for grocery for a family of 5. Everything we need comes out of that money. Sometimes we only have $30 for grocery. I have talked to him about it,but it goes in one ear and out the other. I have made him lunches but he doesn't even eat it. Any advice? Thanks