we only had the one child and when she got married and had children and before they moved away. DH and i would have our own Christmas and muchies. Then about two on Christmas afternoon we would go to DD home and have Christmas with them. We figured it would be e-er and safer for us to travel to thir home then for them to load up all the stuff and the children to come to our home. Less stress for them and less worry for us worring about them traveling with the babies. We would eat, open gifts, check out what all the grandkids got from Santa and play with their toys then we would play a family game and watch a movie and then go home.
now we just jhave Christmas alone. It's not as sad as it sounds we have a special meal, relax, exchange gifts and just enjoy one another. And remember the meaning of Christmas